Friday, April 21, 2017

Project Rise Podcast Episode 4: Chris Johnston



Chris Johnston is the Senior VP at Community One Financial in Puyallup, WA.  He also is the creator and owner of Sparks Firehouse Deli, which is a hub for families and people in the greater Puyallup community.  Sparks Firehouse Deli is known for its fantastic food, awesome ambiance, and excellence service.  Chris is also part owner at Joeseppi's Italian Restaurant in Tacoma as well as several other business ventures.

Because of Chris' outstanding achievements, service and commitment to his community, he was honored with the 2016 University of Washington Milgard School of Business Small Business Leader Award.  From organizing parades honoring local athletic teams, to fundraising a new weight room for Puyallup High School, to coaching youth football, and running several successful businesses...Chris has a formula for winning and making a huge impact on others.  See the video honoring him below.



WHY YOU SHOULD LISTEN

Chris has acquired wealth in many areas of his life - not just business.  He has what I call the Trifecta:
  1. He's a loving husband and father
  2. He is a thriving business owner and entrepreneur.
  3. He is continually serving his community as a volunteer, coach, and philanthropist.
Chris, like many self-made successful individuals, came from a single parent home, with no money, and limited experience.  Faced with other adversities and set backs, he built a flourishing and fulfilling life through grit, effort, and a "refuse to lose" mantra.  Listen in...I know you'll love and learn something from this game changer - I know I have and continue to do so.  

What a stud!
My key takeway: GET OFF YOUR ASS!  Success doesn't come to the lazy.  Take action!  What do you need to do right now to take the necessary steps to take your job, career, or dream to the next level?  You'll only get there through consistent hard work, commitment, and drive.  You got this!  Go for it, like Chris does.  Take that first step today and keep at it.


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Joeseppi's Italian Restaurant

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Saturday, April 15, 2017

THE GREATEST GOAL SETTER

Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night, and had an image or idea flash inside your head like a neon light? Sometimes I do. I'll get an idea, and my brain just won't shut off. Inspired by Easter, this blog post is a creation of that occurrence. 

Despite your spirituality, faith, or even religion, there's no denying one fact - a little over 2,000 years ago, a man named Jesus walked the earth. The record of Jesus of Nazareth has been documented by historians, scholars, and theologians alike. 

Regardless if you believe you are here because of an explosion in space, karma, God, Allah, Xenu (WTF? YouTube "Xenu South Park"...it's amazing). Or maybe you believe in a different dogma all together. Either way, there's one thing I BELIEVE we all can agree on - This man they called Jesus was one hell of a goal setter. 

That was my 2 AM epiphany. Jesus may have been the greatest goal setter of all time.

I mean, he set the bar HIGH! I'm talking Elon Musk SpaceX type ish. Being miraculously born from a virgin would probably increase anyone's swag factor. However, believing to be the son of man, performing miracles, sharing the new gospel, dying for the sins of the world, then coming back to life, and ascending into heaven...Jesus's goals made Elon Musk's goals look itty-bitty teeny-tiny. 

The original JB (Jesus born in Bethlehem...not Bieber) dreamed BIG. I'm talking supersized, XXXL, jumbo, gigantic, ridiculously crazy off the wall big!

If Jesus had one thing (besides a dope beard and legit pair of sandals) it was vision. In order to have a clear vision, you must have what I call MVPs: mission, values, purpose, and slogan. Every successful organization has these clearly defined. Why don't you?

Jesus's MVPs would look something like this:

Mission - Save the world from sin. 
Values - Love all people. 
Purpose - Share the good news
Slogan - I am the truth, the way, the light. 

Jesus without question could define his MVPs. You could tell by how he acted, spoke, prayed, and what he said "yes" or "no" to. His MVPs drove his behavior to reach his vision. 

Have you taken the time to define your MVPs?

One of my main goals is to be the best husband and father possible.
One of the pillars that Project Rise is built on is living a life driven by vision. When you have vision in your life, you have a clear set of goals. Goals create clarity, and clarity is power. Whoever has the most clarity always wins...whether it's a debate, competition, or getting the sale...clarity just flat out gets things done.

How's your clarity? 

Did Jesus have clarity on what his purpose and vision was? You bet your Peeps eatin', mimosa sippin', Easter pastel outfit wearing ass he did. 

No goal, no purpose. 

No goal, no direction. 

No goal, no life. 

No goal, no soul. 

I have the amazing privilege to have opportunities to speak to many audiences - especially to schools and young people about the power of goal setting. JohnNorlin is the Service Guy. Houston Kraft is the Love Guy. Collin Henderson is the Goals Guy. We all have a brand. If you don't think you have a brand, it's time to establish one (just don't be That Guy...no one likes That Guy). 

But wait a sec, who am I kidding? I'm not on the same level right now as John or Houston...but the key word is yet. I'm not on their level YET (come on, where are my Growth Mindset people at?). The fact that I'm not there at this moment in time doesn't bother me. Not one bit. Because I'm already there in my mind. It's all ready done. It just hasn't happened YET. I have a vision and a goal to RISE, just like Jesus. 

I believe with every ounce of my being that having clear goals can transform your life - the way they have mine. 

Goals have taken me from a stutterer to a speaker. 

A perfectionist to an activist. 

A worrier to a warrior...a warrior who feels the fear, but goes to battle anyway. 

Goals will get you out of bed; help you overcome hardships; generate momentum; inspire others; and push you to become your best self. 

My man Zig Ziglar once said, "Don't be a wondering generality. Be a meaningful specific." A life without a goal is not a life at all. 

Casey is a testimate of going all in on a dream.
Who modeled the power of goal setting better than the Jewish carpenter? No one. 

Below are 10 lessons in goal setting I've learned from the real Jahovah-Jireh, Jesus of Nazareth. Sorry Hova and Yeezus, there can only be One (I can't wait for the Yeezy Fall Collection though). 

The 10 Commandments of Goal Setting - Modeled by Jesus. 

1. Your goals should scare you 
I don't think you need to take it as far as Jesus did....on the night before his crucifixion, where it says in the Bible that he was in such a state of distress that he was sweating blood (but when did Jesus go small?). If your goals don't scare you at least a little...you need bigger goals. No guts, no glory. 

2. You're gonna have haters
For some reason, many people don't know what to do with different. If you feel your talents and aspirations are unique, pay these haters no mind. Just do you, just like Jesus did.

The Pharisees and the ancient high priests were the OG's of haters. They were so jealous of what Jesus was doing, all the attention he was getting, the wisdom he had, and the blasphemy that he believed to be the son of God?! Jealously has been with man since the beginning...remember Cain and Abel? 

Listen, it's sad but, many people aren't comfortable with extraordinary. Many prefer the status quo...even some people who love you. If you are raising your standards and living with a vision that others can't see, you'll get criticized. Criticized because of jealousy, lack of faith, and quite honestly, fear they might lose you to bigger and better things. Sound selfish? Yes, but it's true. 

I like to think that having haters is good. It means you're doing something.

Sometimes your dreams might scare others. They'll say, "You can't do that," or "You'll fail." Let them be scared and continue to live a life of lazy mediocrity, while you work your ass off, and not listen to the haters, but hold on to your dream and your process. If you stay true to you, your vision, and your goals...you'll be well on your way to RISE above the fray.  

3. It's going to be hard
Jesus had an unmatched work ethic. From walking from town to town spreading the gospel, to performing miracles daily, to addressing large crowds hours on end...your boy got after it! 

The amazing fact about having a clear goal that inspires you, moves you, and stirs your emotions - it will give you ENERGY! Even though it's really hard work, you'll be able to push through and not even notice the hours you put in. You'll pay no mind to setbacks. You'll be able to persevere through the pain. 

There's no doubt that Jesus suffered to fulfill his destiny. Because he suffered an unimaginable death, his reward was to sit at the right hand of the throne next to his father in heaven. This is the most extreme example imaginable, but it reminds me this simple fact: the higher the level of achievement - the higher the level of hard work and sacrifices required. 

But the payoff will always be worth it. 

Does your goal drive you to work your ass off? If your answer is no, it might be time to reassess your vision and goals. 

4. Break some rules 
One of Arnold Swartzenegger's rules to success is this: Sometimes you've gotta break the rules. 

Jesus understood this principle. He followed his heart, vision, and values, and not to the old crusty Pharisee law. He knew what was right - he was fulfilling his mission.  He was staying true to his MVPs, which sometimes meant breaking the rules. Whether it was healing the sick on the sabbath or rewriting a new covenant - a salvation that is based on faith and not just deeds alone - Jesus stuck to his guns. 

We can learn from Jesus's conviction. 

If old philosophies and out dated guidelines block your path - it's time to blaze a new trail. The worst 6 words that stand in the way of innovation are, "That's how we've always done it." Learn from Jesus. Some rules are meant to be broken. 

5. You'll need a crew
Life was made to be lived together. With that said, our alignment defines our assignment. We are a byproduct of the people we hang with the most. Jesus knew he couldn't do it alone (hence his 12 disciples) - nor can you. Be open to delegate and seek out help. Just be selective on who you choose. Here's one tip: If you're the smartest person in the room, find a new room. 

There's a cool phenomenon called the Koehler Effect, which as been scientifically proven to show that when people work in groups they perform at a higher level. Whether it's a greater sense of accountability, or more energy, it's just proven - teamwork makes the dream work. 

Who's in your squad? 

Join a small group. Get a buddy to go with you to the gym. Align with a partner to start a new business. Nothing great was ever done alone. Develop a team, and watch your production RISE.

Squad goals achieved: the Hopper's, Isaacson's, and Martin's. Love this crew so much!
6. Be well read 
Jesus knew his Bible. He did his homework and could recite all the scriptures. While traveling with his family as a twelve year old,  he was mistakenly left behind because he was studying in his God's house - the church. 

Are you well read in your field of choice? Have you studied those who have came before you? 

The one thing that changed my life when I was going through struggles was investing in my personal development. I've made it a habit to read and listen to books incessantly. I hope you do the same. Eric Thomas, the Hip Hop Preacher often advises, "You are what you know."

What are you reading, watching, and listening to? 

If your answers are: Facebook, Netflix, and Pandora...it's time to find new material. 

7. Humble yourself 
Jesus didn't roll into town in a Bentley spinning on 22's. He was riding a donkey. Humble yourself to focus on what's important - substance, not flash. Do the grunt work. Start from the bottom. Push your ego aside. If a carpenter can be the savior of man, then you can ascend to unreal heights too. The only way you'll stay there though, is with humility. Don't judge your success on things, but in the people you impact and your personal growth. If those elements are your focus, the frankincense and myrrh will come. 

Jesus never looked to take credit for any of his miracles.  Often times after helping someone, he would tell them to "tell no one."  How many times have you looked for praise for the simplest of accomplishments?  I am so guilty of that...seeking for praise, instead of seeking to raise someone up.

He who humbles himself, will be exalted. Today might be a good day to start to eat some humble pie. You'll reach your goals faster if you do.

8. Be a servant 
Gandhi peacefully fasted. MLK marched. Mother Teresa fed the poor. Jesus washed feet. It didn't matter if you were a tax collector, prostitute, Roman guard, or stricken with leprosy, Jesus loved and served all people. 

Achieving is serving. The more you serve, the farther you will go. To me, that's the definition of greatness. Dave Ramsey once  said, "The only effective form of leadership is servant leadership." 

While you are striving to achieve your goal, just remember this: The more people you serve, the more abundance and success you'll create. 

Who served others more than Jesus?

9. It's never too late 
Jesus didn't perform one miracle, make any ripple in history, or begin his ministry until he was in his early 30's. 

It's never too late to get on the goal train and achieve greatness. Look at John Wooden and Warren Buffet. Goals don't have an age requirement...just a passion qualifier. It doesn't matter if you're 9 or 90 for the conductor to click your ticket. Just like Jesus, the goal train accepts all passengers. No matter your age, failures, disappointments, background, or history - everyone is welcome - similar to God's kingdom.

What debilitating story have you been telling yourself? What excuses have you been making that have created a failure to launch? 

It's time to start a new thought pattern, and a new plan to finally go after your dream. It's never too late.

10. YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE 
Jesus was willing to die for what he believed in...are you? Are you willing to lay it on the line and sacrifice everything you have because your faith and belief is so intense that nothing will stop you? Belief was one of Jesus's strongest super powers. By faith, not in acts alone will you RISE. 

A goal without belief is like a car without gas. It won't go anywhere. Choose faith. Believe in the unseen. Trust your process. Do whatever it takes to get there. If you do, you will be handsomely rewarded...just like the Jewish carpenter from Nazareth. 

Sometimes you gotta just GO FOR IT!

He has RISEN
I hope this post gives you an epiphany like I had the other night - an epiphany of clarity and inspiration. In order to RISE and be your best self, it starts with a goal. I hope your goal is so crazy and exciting that it keeps you up at night.  If you have a passionate goal, there's no doubt you will. 

The central theme of Easter is rebirth and resurrection. If you are not where you want to be, that is OK. Get rid of your old ways. Cease your limiting thoughts. Create a goal and begin a rebirth of the new you.

Here's a simple exercise to get you started. Pull out a sheet of paper and pen (or use the Notes app in your phone) and create your MVPs. This exercise will give you the framework for your vision - to help you achieve your goals. 

Mission - What do you want to accomplish?
Values - What are the standards and guiding principles that will drive your behavior?
Purpose - What is the reason and "why" behind your goal?
Slogan - Create a slogan or mantra that sums up in a few words what you're all about and sparks action. Tell this slogan to the world! Put it on your Instagram and Facebook page.

Let Jesus be the model of how to live and love. If you do, who knows, with GRACE, GRIT, and most importantly a GOAL, you can create your best self...and a version of heaven on earth. 

If you like this post or you know somebody that could use this framework, The 10 Commandments of Goal Setting - Modeled by Jesus, please share it!

HAPPY EASTER TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. 

Monday, April 10, 2017

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?


Sometimes when I write, it's a byproduct of being inspired, wanting to get clarity on a topic, or exploring my own theory in a specific area. With that said, I'm about to embark on a voyage that deals with an enigma similar to the Bermuda Triangle, the Egyptian Pyramids, Stonehenge, and figuring out what the hell happened to Richard Simmons.

This topic has been a mystery that man has tried to understand since the beginning of time: 
What Do Women Want?


No man is as fortunate as Mel Gibson's character in the 2000 film What Women Want - by being able to hear the inner most thoughts of women...and dogs, "Monsieur, Monsieur, I need to poop!" Without this mind reading ability, men are tasked to know their woman's needs and deliver on their desires. 

The only advice my dad gave me on the topic of women was, "Find a girl who can afford you. It's a lot easier to fall in love on the beaches of Hawaii." He obviously was joking...or was he? Then in his Ph.D. wisdom, J. Hen would follow that with his real offering, "Find a girl who is smart." 

My response to him now is, "Ok dad, I've done that; so now what?" The most attractive quality that drew me to Kendra was her brain (oh and she's 5'9, gorgeous, has a funny wit, is an amazing cook, and loves football...winning!)

She is definitely out of my league. (shout out to B. Hop!)
Aside from finding my soul mate, I've been blessed with amazing mentors in my life who have modeled the proper way to treat women and how to have a flourishing marriage. Young people do what you do, not what you say. I'm thinking about my son Baylor, and my goal is to model to him that the only way to have an effective relationship is to serve your partner. 

Let me premise that I am not perfect in this area, but like most males, I'm a work in progress. I've been labeled by a few people as selfish, "the King," and being all about me. My job requires me to travel quite a bit; I'm very active juggling multiple passions outside of work (can you say Rise?); I don't have many man skills (thank God for our neighbor Jeff); so sue me, I married Wonder Woman. Kendra seems to have super powers in many areas - her weapon of choice is either the power drill or her trusty breast pump - depends on the day. 

This is how I see my bride.
What's awesome is that people are entitled to their opinion. They don't have to agree 100% on my (or your) relationship dynamics. The most important factor is that you and your partner communicate frequently and have established clear expectations - and you both deliver on those. I feel that this is were Kendra and I have excelled - communicating on what our needs are and doing our best to make those happen. 

Things are not always going to work out perfectly or as planned. Being able to say "I'm sorry," owning your mistakes, and sincerely make the necessary adjustments to correct the behavior or issue is what effective teamwork is all about.  I think I'm winning on the "sorry" scoreboard.  Wow, grace is powerful in a team setting. 

As with any team in sports, business, or life, it's all about playing to your strengths. I feel we do a great job at this. For example, when we got married, Kendra assembled our new barbecue, while I wrote our thank you letters for all of our wedding gifts. 6+3=9. So does 7+2, 5+4, and so on. There's not one way to have an effective marriage. Know and playoff each other's strengths. Your production and happiness will be elevated.  

A few years ago, we read the book The Five Love Languages (which I totally recommend) and we do our best to make sure those needs are met consistently. My top two are: 1) physical touch, and 2) acts of service. While Kendra's are 1) quality time, and 2) Starbucks or Chipotle (really, the author added those in the latest addition). 


Aside from mastering each other's love languages, another tool to use is the framework I call A.L.A.ask, listen, and act on what what makes your significant other happy. Why does it need to be more complicated then that? 

Step 1: Communicate and ASK what makes her happy and how you can help. The first response might not tell the whole story. Be ready to dig deep and peel back the onion (women have layers...just like ogres, ogres have layers too...pardon my Shrek reference). The more details and specifics you can obtain the better.

Step 2: This might be a new concept for some of you guys out there (after 6 years of marriage I'm still working on it), but truly LISTEN to what she is saying. Seek to understand. Don't just nod your head and envision what meat you're going to BBQ next. Make a mental note, store it, then proceed to Step 3. 

Step 3: Based on her needs, take ACTION. This could be the most important step. Why? Because taking action takes effort. But not just mindless effort (how many times have you half-assed made the bed or picked up after yourself). Intentional action that follows a strategy is where magic happens. Effectiveness is all about execution. If you execute on her needs, I can give you 50 reasons how this will benefit her and YOU (trust me, there will be no shades of gray). 

Do this ALA process:
0 times per year = F results. 
1 time per year =  D results. 
1 time per quarter =  C results. 
1 time per month = B results
1 time per week = A results
1 time per day = A+++ results 

The reason why a high number of relationships get stale and fail is because there is no energy and effort. Imagine if you put the same type of energy, passion, and attention to each other as you did in the beginning of the relationship! Love doesn't sit on its ass and binge on Netflix all day (unless it's New Girl - watched together of course). Love is a Verb...just ask John Mayer. Love Does...just ask Bob Goff. 

Average in = average out. Awesome in = awesome out. What's more important then you and your partner's relationship? Besides putting The Man Upstairs at the center of our life and marriage, Kendra and my relationship is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN MY LIFE! 

We feel the best gift we can give to our children is putting our marriage first, and them second. Many couples married with children have it backwards...and their marriage takes a back seat. Hmm, I wonder why divorce rates are so high for new empty nesters?


Below are what I call Kendra's Keys. If I can deliver on these, I'm winning, she's winning, our marriage, and family are winning. 

1. C.S.S. - Certainty, Security, and Safety
Similar to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, I've learned that everything starts here. 
Certainty: Being the man of the house, I feel a sense of responsibility to operate and function in a consistent manner, provide stability, and create vision for our family. 
Security: It's my duty to provide for us through generating short and long term financial security. 
Safety: A must is to make Kendra feel that she and our children are safe. This dictates the car we drive, how we handle certain public situations, and the fact that I make sure the doors are locked each night before we go to bed (this took me a few years to embed in my psyche). 

2. Be Present 
Being a Zombie is not a good look. Zombies don't make good husbands or fathers. Amber Alert: PUT THE CELL PHONE AWAY. I try to institute the 6 to 9 rule - my phone stays in my room plugged in from 6 to 9pm when I get home from work. Don't be a Cell Phone Zombie, put the cell phone away (this is one area I need A LOT of work on). While your phone is charging locked up in a safe, play the Rose/Thorn game. Each of you share something that you loved about the day (rose) and something that could have been better (thorn). This is an easy, simple, and effective way to communicate and have a little bonding time. 

3. Deliver On Her Love Languages 
We are very intentional to carve out time and connect during that sweet spot when the kids go down to bed and before we go to bed. This is always much valued QT. Also, I make it a point to bring her Starbucks, flowers, or her favorite…Chewy Sprees candy when I can. About 75% of the time when I come home from the gym, I come packing heat - a toasted Chonga bagel with an iced coffee.  This always is a crowd pleaser.  

4. Connect Emotionally and Physically
Most women are crock pots, not microwaves...this includes Kendra. If I want a connection downstairs, I better connect upstairs first (Hint: this doesn't start at 9pm, but 9am). Compliments are free. Acts of service are free, but the payoffs are priceless. Also, every physical touch doesn't need to lead to something else. Put some money in the bank, rub her feet and expect nothing to happen. You will earn some bonus points, which you can cash in later - Yahtzee!

5. Love Our Children
Serving our children is serving Kendra. Being the best daddy is deeply appreciated and sexy as hell...ask any woman. When I get home, I love to give Kendra a break from Earth, Wind, and Fire (Baylor, Bella, and Winnie) with some dada time. They love it. I love it. And after being a physical and emotional punching bag for the previous 10 hours, Kendra loves it the most. 

6. When I'm Fulfilled, She's Fulfilled
I need to make sure that I'm doing the things that fill me up - exercising, doing my best at work, following my passions. Kendra is so amazing, that she understands the importance of allowing me to be who I am. When that process takes place I have more to give and everyone wins.

7. Date Consistently 
Make the words "Date Night" a staple in your relationship's vocabulary. Don't let your love fern die...water it, nurture it, and give it light...by regularly scheduling a night out on the town WITHOUT YOUR KIDS! Do I even need to justify why this is important? 

For some low cost date night ideas...click here
I am fully aware that this list is not the end all be all. If you have your own way of investing in your marriage that works, then great! The most important key to this whole What Women Want thing is to DECIDE and COMMIT 100% to your relationship. Love is a choice that needs ACTIONS to fan the flame...not with intentions or "should do's."  When I take care of Kendra's needs...she more then takes care of me!  The Bible says you reap what you sow...this is so true in relationships. Take care of your woman where she needs it the most, and you will be the wealthiest man on the planet in the area that matters most - LOVE. 

Since there are 7 Keys to my list above, take the Kendra's Keys Challenge. Discuss and implement one of the 7 keys each day of the week with your spouse...start today! 

For all my fellas out there, I hope Kendra's Keys help you unlock your inner Prince Charming. Who knows, you just might awaken your Sleeping Beauty and discover not just what WOMEN want, but what YOUR WOMAN WANTS. 

And if you execute on this quest, you'll create a happy ending in more ways then one.


Tuesday, April 4, 2017

HOW MOANA MADE ME CRY

Over the past month I've watched the Disney movie Moana at least 5 times. If you have younger children like we do, you most likely have seen it and can probably recite the songs in the film like a JT record. 

All Baylor and Bella want to do is watch the "Big Guy"...Dwayne "the Rock" Johnson's character, Maui...which he crushes btw...and the brave heroine, Moana.

She's next level.
Even our one year old Winnie is getting into the action. I got home the other day from a work trip, and all she could say to me was, "Muah, Muah." I was like, "Kendra, what is she saying?" She replied, "Moana!" 

Huh, should have known. Gotta love baby gibberish. 

There's a reason Disney owns everything from the Marvel Universe to ESPN. They are frickin' smart and have mastered the art of storytelling. They have gotten so good over the years, and the plots have even struck cords with adults as much as kids. 

Disney has a proven plot system. Here's my breakdown: 
1. Scene and characters are established (old normal)
2. A challenge arises
3. A nurturing character close to the protagonist dies or is faced with a dangerous threat
4. The naive hero (protagonist) goes on a journey
5. The protagonist is mentored
6. The protagonist fails and contemplates quitting
7. The protagonist faces his/her fear and transforms into a real hero
8. With a new found courage and skill, the protagonist saves the day. 
9. A new normal and happy world is created

Disney's Empire is endless.
I've loved many Disney films, but this Moana story stirred my spirit and emotions more than any drama or action film of recent memory (nothing creates water works like Cuba Gooding, Jr's movie Radio though). The symbolisms in Moana, her journey, failure, triumph, and message of redemption are timeless. There's a plot twist in the end and a climactic scene that had me balling my eyes out...I mean grown man ugly cry. I had to hide my face so my kids didn't think something was wrong with me. 

There were many takeaways from this gem that made me laugh, think, and cry. Below are elements of the movie that paralleled with real life - and even had a biblical influence. Take a look at this list and reflect how it relates to your life.

Under qualified 
The chosen one, Moana, lacked experience, was under qualified, was too young, and an unlikely choice to save her people. 

How many characters in the Bible were an unlikely choice from God? Moses stuttered. David was an adulterer. Paul killed Christians. 

You might think you are under qualified, but trust that no one is ever 100% ready and are completely qualified. Know that you are chosen. You are worthy. There is no such thing as perfect. It's about the journey and growth along the way. Stop thinking that you don't have what it takes. The people who shaped the world where flawed just like you and me. The only difference is they took action! It's time for you to stop thinking you don't have what it takes, because you do!  Take ACTION! 

Courage
Despite going against her father's will, Moana left her island and faced many dangerous situations to save her people. 

David faced Goliath. Noah survived the storm. Daniel was saved from the lion's den. 

You will never reach your potential or achieve anything of significance unless you face your fear. Warriors feel the fear, but go to battle anyway. This is where growth happens. What fear have you been avoiding that you need to attack?

Mentorship
Moana knew very little about sailing or the world beyond her island. However, she had a connection with the ocean and the dream of exploring. This dream was encouraged and nurtured by her grandmother. While on her journey, Moana, who was a novice sailor, learned to be a master of the seas. She learned this skill from the other main character in the film, Maui. Because of Moana and Maui's teamwork, they saved the day. This feet would not have been possible without each other. Maui learned a great deal from his mentee, Moana, as well (humility, courage, resourcefulness). 

Mentorship has been a critical part of achieving greatest throughout history. Moses mentored Aaron. Eli mentored Samuel. Jesus mentored his disciples.  

What is your dream? Who can you seek out to help you achieve it? You are not alone. We all can benefit from having at least one source that is full of encouragement and knowledge. Focus on learning from those people instead of the naysayers, critics, and doubters - which, if you are seeking to do something great - you will have plenty of those types of people. 

Think of one person who believes in you. Channel their energy and encouragement. Also, who has what you want? Ask them to be your mentor. This relationship will be life changing. 

You should always have a mentor and a mentee.
"This does not define you" 
Moana and Maui had several major setbacks and failures throughout the process. Both even felt so defeated that they lost hope and even quit. Yet, something inside of their spirit lifted them out of a state of despair to keep fighting and fulfill their destiny. 

God never makes it easy. Whether the Jews exodus from Egypt, to Abraham and Sarah waiting until late in life to have children, and even Jesus's death and resurrection (there are many more examples)...the people who fall and get back up and face the fire are rewarded. 

The most powerful scene in the film felt like a scene straight from the Bible. There is a clever twist at the end when Moana reaches the end of her journey to restore the heart of Te Fiti. While facing the lava monster (that's what my kids call it), Moana realizes that the monster is not really evil. The ocean parts, she calls to her, and sings a message that has so much biblical relevance that it had me balling. I saw God in the form of a 16 year old girl speaking to me, people who are lost, hurt, afraid, living in guilt and shame, and who have lost sight of their true self. This is what she sang:

I have crossed the horizon to find you
I know your name
They have stolen the heart from inside you
But this does not define you
This is not who you are
You know who you are
...who you truly are.

God has been on an endless search to reach you. 
He loves you, and knows you by name. 
He may have challenged you with hardships that have broken you. You may have lost your way and have been on a path of self destruction.
BUT THIS DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. 
God adores you and sees the hero inside of you. 
He knows who you are. You know who you are. Let that person come back to life and grow to something even greater. 

This song could also be sung from a parent to a child; a child to a parent; a friend to a friend; or you to yourself.

Sheesh, I'm tearing up right now just as I write this. Please watch the scene below and reflect on your life. Forgive yourself and start living in color, not darkness. If you are in a healthy place, how can you be a light for others?

In summary:
• Even though you are under qualified, you are ready. 
• Nothing of significance happens without courage. 
• You are not alone. Seek out mentors, while you mentor others. 
• Your failure does not define you. How you respond does. 
• In order to be great, you must love yourself first. 

Forgive yourself.  Mend a relationship.  Forgive someone else.
Begin a new adventure.

Start an adventurous journey today and become your best self...just like Moana.